The 56th Mile of Life

This one was requested 💜 and I rushed to my keyboard!!!

Dear wondering reader,

Strength is not defined by words. Strength is defined by the courage and actions we take with us. In a moment of strife and heart ache that’s when strength comes through the most. You could have taken multiple roads but what defined you was your moment of strength and grace. You carried a lot this year and I can tell you with a loving heart, you can put it down that pain and hurt you have been carrying.

Don’t let other people turn you into something you are not. It doesn’t help the pain but what helps is knowing you did everything you could , what hurt was when you metaphorically turned around and see who hurt you. That pain is indescribable. But don’t lower your standard to get revenge or to seek Justice. Digging a deeper hole won’t help you get out. What will help you get out of that dark place is finding peace, having love for yourself, and still choosing to love someone but wishing them the best. Using every effort you have to find the people in your life that will support and be there for you. That show you the love you deserve.It is like that saying “If you love someone, and they love you, let them go. If they come back they were ment to be there and if they don’t, well you found out how they feel and who they are.”

At least you have peace over anger, denial, and more heartache. I think as human beings we do this because we show love to people who maybe never had it the way they should. But that is not a you problem that is on them. Be gentle with yourself, take time to feel the emotions, take time to find peace. I love you keep going, this to shall pass 💜!!!

Always,

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